Donald Campbell’s Bluebird K7 set to return to Coniston, and more: Radio and podcasts of the week

Archive on 4: In the Psychiatrist’s ChairRadio 4/BBC Sounds, 8pmA memorable edition finds one of the BBC’s great interviewers, Kirsty Young, looking back on the work of another, the master of the emotionally freighted radio interview, Prof Anthony Clare. From 1982 to 2001, Clare served up a succession of rarely bettered encounters with famous names on his Radio 4 seriesIn the Psychiatrist’s Chair. Young selects some of the most revealing – with Claire Rayner, Ann Widdecombe, Bob Monkhouse, Maya Angelou and Hanif Kureishi among others – reflecting on the blend of psychiatric training and journalistic flair that made Clare such a formidable scrutiniser of the psyche and virtuoso of the radio confessional.

The Telegraph The Bluebird K7, which crashed killing Donald Campbell in 1967, has been restored

Saturday 9 May

Erin Morley as Marie in La Fille du Régiment

Opera on 3: La Fille du RégimentRadio 3/BBC Sounds, 6pmIn the right hands, Donizetti’s frothy romcom is a guarantee of dazzling singing; in the hands of glorious coloratura soprano (and darling of the Met) Erin Morley, as Maria, andbel cantospecialist Lawrence Brownlee, as Tonio, expect this recording from New York last October to be positively incandescent.

Sunday 10 May

Desert Island DiscsRadio 4/BBC Sounds, 10amFromState of PlayandThe DealtoThe Walking Dead,Sherwood,Daddy Issuesand most recentlyGone, David Morrissey has delivered countless memorable performances on our TV screens. Here’s a rare chance to get a glimpse of the man behind the actor’s mask as Lauren Laverne draws him out on career highs and lows, his musical and literary favourites and, of course, that luxury choice.

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Radcliffe and MaconieRadio 6 Music/BBC Sounds, 8amIt’s Slow Sunday on Radio 6 Music, with shows across the day dialling down the tempo ahead of UK Mental Health Awareness Week. Stuart Maconie flies solo this week, treating listeners to a relaxing morning by the riverbank, with soothing riparian tracks from the likes of Nick Drake, Ibeyi, The Coral, Lykke Li and Al Green. Later,Guy Garvey’s Finest Hour(1pm) explores the therapeutic value of birdwatching, whileMary Anne Hobbs(6pm) experiences the joy of forest bathing and the magic of trees, with archive words and music from the late, great Ryuichi Sakamoto.

Monday 11 May

Exploring Art HistoryFortnightly on Mondays, all major platformsIf your art interests ever stray towards the academic, check out this new podcast in which writer, filmmaker and all-round polymath Howard Burton delves deeply with art historians about their key subjects. So far, he’s discussed Albrecht Dürer with UCLA print specialist Susan Dackerman and, in a particularly captivating encounter, brought historical maps into the art arena with cartographic historian Jessica Maier. He’s also given over two episodes for an exploration of Michelangelo with renowned expert Bill Wallace – it’s worth checking out the visualised version for the illustrations, but not essential.

RinsedRadio 4/BBC Sounds, 1.45pmChannel 4’s horrifyingDirty Businessdidn’t quite arouse the hoped-for national outcry. Perhaps Kate Lamble’s daily 10-parter for Radio 4 about the pollution scandal that’s seen UK water companies pumping untreated sewage into our rivers for decades, suffocating plants, killing wildlife and making people ill – while rinsing every one of us for profits – will raise awareness to a level where our spineless Environment Agency and supine government are finally forced to do something about it.

Tuesday 12th May

Sara Cox presents Radio 2's coverage of the semi-finals, before being joined by Rylan for the final

Eurovision 2026: Semi-Final 1Radio 2/BBC Sounds, 8pmIt’s that time of the year, when glitter and high-camp pop take over the airwaves ahead of Saturday’s Eurovision grand final in Vienna. Parachuted in to cover most of Scott Mills’s former Radio 2 duties,Sara Coxmust have had to spend the last month swotting up on obscure Europop gossip and triviato prepare for this unexpected debut. She hosts the two live semi-final competitions tonight and Thursday, with Rylan joining Cox for the grand final. Upbeat comedian Ellie Taylor, meanwhile, fills in on Cox’s usual teatime slot.

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A Century in a Click: 100 Years of the PhotoboothRadio 4/BBC Sounds, 4pmTaking his cue from a recent exhibition at the Photographer’s Gallery in London celebrating the centenary of the photobooth, Alan Dein weaves a typically masterly tale infused with memory and nostalgia on the silliness and old-fashioned serendipity of sitting in a boxful of camera lenses and chemicals to capture your identity, or just a unique moment in life.

Wednesday 13 May

Tales from the Celebrity TrenchesWednesdays, all major platformsBack in the “wild west” days of the internet, Jamie East, via hisHoly Molywebsite, was one of the first – alongside rivalPopbitch– to successfully surf the unstoppable wave of celebrity gossip. Now carving a career in podcasting, his latest series takes him back to his pop culture roots, chatting with showbiz friends old and new (his first guest is Simon Cowell) about the weird and often hilarious world of celebrity. On a more serious note, Maria Sharapova’s weekly podcastPretty Toughfinds the former World No 1 tennis player leveraging a different kind of celebrity to sit down with high-achieving women(among themZoe Saldaña, Chelsea Handler and Gabriella Hirst) to ease out what it takes to succeed on your own terms.

Comedian John Tothill

John Tothill Forgives Your SinsRadio 4/BBC Sounds, 6.30pmA delightfully effervescent half-hour in which former teacher Tothill (a Best Show nominee at last year’s Edinburgh Comedy Awards) encourages audience members to share their most embarrassing mistakes – and shares his own considerable back catalogue of comedy-gold errors.

Thursday 14 May

Live from Mount OlympusThursdays, all major platformsThe US podcast that fuses Greek mythology with music-driven children’s storytelling and innovative narrative techniques returns for a seventh and final series, this time telling the story of those divinely different twins, Apollo and Artemis. With a back catalogue covering everything from Pandora, Persephone and Prometheus to Theseus and Ariadne, it’s an effortlessly accessible route into the classics.

Grow, Cook, Eat, Arrange with Sarah Raven & FriendsThursdays, all major platformsIt’s been going since lockdown, but Mary Berry’s appearance this week and Adam Nicolson’s contribution on the secret history of Sissinghurst a fortnight ago reminded us what a perfect weekend podcast this is for anyone remotely green-fingered. Ravens’s passions – as a gardener, writer, teacher and cook – shine through across a wide range of horticulture-related subjects, guaranteeing all kinds of outdoor and indoor inspiration for the weekend ahead.

Open CountryRadio4/BBC Sounds, 3pmAlmost 60 years since Donald Campbell lost his life attempting to break his own world speed record, his restored iconic jet-powered hydroplaneBluebird K7(those grainy black and white images of it flipping up and disintegrating in 1967 were etched on countless memories) isreturning to Coniston Wateras part of a week-long festival celebrating the 70th anniversary of Campbell’s 1956 world record and other achievements. Caz Graham is waterside for what’s sure to be an emotional first run out.

Friday 15 May

Sophie Ellis-Bextor’s Eurovision Kitchen DiscoRadio 2/BBC Sounds, 9pmAhead of Saturday’s grand final in Vienna, Radio 2’s queen of the Friday night dancefloor hosts her annualEurovisiontribute show of back-to-back, guaranteed floor-filling Europop bangers, from Eurovision classics such as Abba’sWaterlooand Loreen’sEuphoriato the more tangential hits from Girls Aloud and Tom Jones. If musical theatre is more your bag (and, who knows, there might be a crossover audience),Friday Night Is Music Night(Radio 3, 7.30pm)features a Richard Rodgers special from the BBC Concert Orchestra, recorded at the Royal and Derngate Theatre, Northampton last month.

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Millie Bobby Brown’s Plunging Micro Minidress Has a Surprise Underneath

Millie Bobby Brown is bringing playful summer fashion to her latest Florence by Mills Fashion campaign, rocking a vibrant plunging micro minidress. The actress and entrepreneur recently shared sunny photos while modeling an orange minidress from her own brand.

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Millie Bobby Brownposed outdoors in a fitted peachy orange dress while showing off a casual yet stylish look. The sleeveless piece featured a plunging neckline and a very short hemline, but the actress revealed there was a practical surprise underneath.

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“She’s comfy, she’s cute, she’s got shorts underneath,” Brown wrote in the caption while announcing that the Playmaker collection was now live through Florence by Mills Fashion. In one of the photos, the “Stranger Things” star posed beneath a large umbrella while giving the sporty dress a playful summer vibe. She completed the look with soft makeup, short tousled hair, and white sandals.

Fans quickly filled the comments section with compliments about the new campaign. “Stunning as always,” one fan wrote. Another added, “Obsessed,” while others called the photos “summer vibes the best.”

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Sabrina Carpenter Switches Up Her Hair in Plunging Plum-Colored Bodycon Dress for Her 27th Birthday

Sabrina Carpenter turned 27 on May 11.

InStyle Sabrina Carpenter at the 2025 VMAs.Credit: Getty Images

The Gist

  • She posted a new Instagram carousel to celebrate.

  • Carpenter ditched her signature blowout while wearing a bodycon dress.

Sabrina Carpenteris entering her 27th year with a new hairdo. On May 11,the "Espresso" artistrocked her natural texture in an Instagramcarousel.

"You know it’s your birthday when people start wishing you happy birthday," Carpenter captioned the photos, in which she switched up her signature blowout and full bangs.

Sabrina Carpenter in an Instagram photo posted on May 11, 2026.Credit: Sabrina Carpenter/Instagram

The singer paired her wild shoulder-length ringlets with a slinky bodycon dress. Her plunging, eggplant-colored satin shift came with tiered fringe and a large floral appliqué at the center of the bodice. She completed her look with some peep-toe heels.

As for Carpenter's glam, she opted for hot pink blush, beige eyeshadow, and a stained lip.

Sabrina Carpenter attends the Met Gala on May 4, 2026.Credit: Getty Images

After walking the Met Gala 2026 red carpet in an LBD made out of actual film strips, Carpenter slipped into something even sexier for her after-party, which she co-hosted with Madonna.

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Taking to her Instagram, Carpenter shared afabulous photo dumpwith her 51.1 million followers, starting with a glitzy snap lensed by her sister, Sarah.

Sabrina Carpenter attends the Met Gala on May 4, 2026.Credit: Getty Images

The "Manchild" hitmaker posed in a car wearing a white babydoll top with a plunging neckline, double spaghetti straps, gold fringe accents, and silver rhinestones everywhere. She appeared to go pantsless, pairing the top with sheer black tights and a luxe sequined robe with white and black fur trim.

Elsewhere in the carousel, she posed with friends in a photo booth, danced with Madonna, and took sultry bed selfies in another glittery ensemble. This time, staying true to her cinematic aesthetic, she dazzled in a beaded red Jeremy Scott minidress meant to look like a movie ticket, with "Admit One" and a series of numbers emblazoned across it in black text.

On the first Monday in May, Carpenter sauntered up the Metropolitan Museum of Art's famous steps in a custom Christian Dior number featuring film from the Audrey Hepburn movieSabrina.

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Amal Clooney Revives an Archival Gold McQueen Dress for the King’s Trust Celebration

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  • Amal Clooney wore a gold archival McQueen dress for her latest red carpet appearance at The King’s Trust celebration in London.

  • The gown originally debuted during the house’s fall 2007 runway show in Paris.

  • Amal was recently photographed at her husband George Clooney’s 65th birthday celebration in France.

Amal Clooneyreached into the fashion archives for her latest red carpet appearance.

Attending The King’s Trust’s 50th anniversary celebration alongside husband George Clooney, the human rights lawyer wore a gold sequined gown fromAlexander McQueen’s fall 2007 collection.

Amal Clooney at the King's Trust 50th Anniversary Celebration.

The archival design featured a V-neckline, cap sleeves, and a fitted column silhouette covered in intricate gold embellishment.

It first appeared on the runway in March 2007 during the house’s Paris Fashion Week show:

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PARIS– March 1: Models walk down the catwalk during the Alexander McQueen's Fall 2007 line of cloth

Amal chose gold accessories for her look today, pairing the gown with pointed metallic pumps, a gold clutch, and delicate jewelry. She wore her hair in loose side-parted waves.

George stepped out in a classic look himself for the night, wearing a navy suit layered over a white dress shirt and dark tie.

The couple arrived at Royal Albert Hall holding hands ahead of the evening’s celebration.

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The event marked the 50th anniversary of The King’s Trust, thecharity founded by King Charles IIIin 1976 to help young people between the ages of 11 and 30 build practical life skills, prepare for careers, and connect with employment opportunities.

The Clooneys’ latest outing follows their recent trip to St. Tropez, France, where they werephotographedcelebrating George’s 65th birthday earlier this month.

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Reality Star Shocks Fans with Extravagant Gown Made of '500 Loaves of Bread' to Promote Bakery Business at Awards Show

Reality star Queen Mercy Atang wore a dress made of 500 loaves of bread to promote her bakery business at the AMVCAs on Saturday, May 9

People Queen Mercy Atang at AMVCAsCredit: Photography: @segun_wealth  Design/Styling: @tiannahsplacempire Talent: @queenmercyatang

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  • The gown, designed by Toyin Lawani, sparked social media buzz with fans praising its creativity and humor

  • Atang, a former Big Brother: Naija star, thanked her team for helping her showcase her brand in a bold way

An attendee at the Africa Magic Viewers’ Choice Awards (AMVCA) made a statement at the ceremony after wearing a dress made of bread.

Reality TV star Queen Mercy Atang wore a gown comprised of 500 loaves of bread at the award show celebrating African film and fashion, in Lagos, Nigeria, on Saturday, May 9.

The striking dress by Toyin Lawani of Tiannah's Empire was designed to promote Atang’s bakery business,Swit Cakes & Desserts, she shared onInstagram.

“What other place is better to advertise my business than the AMVCA?” she told theBBCat the event.

Queen Mercy Atang at AMVCAsCredit: Photography: @segun_wealth  Design/Styling: @tiannahsplacempire Talent: @queenmercyatang

Atang posted avideoof herself at the ceremony being helped by a group of people carrying her large skirt filled with bread onto the red carpet. In another clip posted on Instagram, Atang was seen being carefully helped into the heavy gown by several handlers in a dressing room.

Fans shared their surprised reactions to the dress on social media.

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“Real definition of I carry my business … love it,” one person wrote in the comment section of Atang's Instagram post of her dress. “Breadwinner of the century😂😂😂😂😂,” a second fan joked.

Queen Mercy Atang at AMVCAsCredit: Photography: @segun_wealth  Design/Styling: @tiannahsplacempire Talent: @queenmercyatang

Atang rose to fame on season 6 ofBig Brother: Naijain 2021 and was previously Miss Nigeria International 2015. She hopes she can reach new audiences with her bakery business.

On Sunday, May 10, the reality star shared avideothanking her style team after her breakout look at the AMVCAs.

“Tiannah, thank you for bringing your ideas and creativity to help put my brand out there. All I wanted was a dress to show that [I] have a bakery business and you did that for me,” she said. “At first, I was scared, but you encouraged me all the way. But you were like, ‘trust me!’ … and I’m so happy.”

Several other attendees at the AMVCAs sported outlandish designs, including agown made of packets of butterworn by actress Abibat Saka, acathedral-shaped gownworn by Ghanaian fashion star Nana Akua Addo and afilm reel dressworn by Nigerian model Peggy Ovire.

The dresses have sparked an online trend of other entrepreneurs postingimagesof themselves wearing their business as a dress.

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David Allan Coe, maverick country star known for his wild life and working-class anthems

David Allan Coe, who has died aged 86, was a maverick country music singer known for his wild tales of prison life and working-class anthems You Never Even Called Me by My Name and Take This Job and Shove It; he was a pioneer of the “outlaw” movement which bristled against Nashville’s conservatism and conformism.

The Telegraph David Allan Coe performing in Austin, Texas, in 2017

A broad, physically intimidating man who could often rub people up the wrong way, Coe arrived in the Tennessee city in 1967, keen to make it as a country music star despite being a self-declared “long-haired redneck” (though the flowing mane that was a feature of his later stage shows was a 3ft-long blonde wig).

He lived for a time in a hearse, perpetually parked outside the Ryman Auditorium, where he would don elaborate rhinestone outfits and a Lone Ranger-style mask and busk for gullible passers-by who believed he had just come off stage.

Six years after arriving in Music City, Coe hit the big time thanks to Tanya Tucker’s cover of Would You Lay With Me (in a Field of Stone), which went to No 1 in the country charts. Coe signed with Columbia and released his major-label debut, The Mysterious Rhinestone Cowboy, in 1974. It included I Still Sing the Old Songs, and a cover ofGuy Clark’s country staple Desperados Waiting for the Train (later popularised by the Highwaymen supergroup consisting of Coe’s fellow outlawsWaylon Jennings, Willie Nelson,Johnny CashandKris Kristofferson).

But it was the album Once Upon a Rhyme, released a year later, that gave Coe his imperishable hit, You Never Even Called Me by My Name. Written by Steve Goodman andJohn Prine, it was a self-knowing send-up of honky tonk stereotypes involving trucks, beer and dysfunctional families: “I was drunk the day my mom got out of prison/ And I went to pick her up in the rain/ But before I could get to the station in my pick-up truck/ She got runned over by a damned old train”. The song remains a jukebox staple in bars across the Southern US, and lived up to its cocky, spoken-word interlude declaring it the “perfect country and Western song”.

Coe in 1975 dressed as The Mysterious Rhinestone Cowboy

That bristling self-assuredness inflected all of Coe’s music, from his Hank Williams-inspired journeyman epic The Ride in 1983 to Son of the South (1986), in which he reels off a list of his all-time favourite artists – Hank Williams Jr, the Allman Brothers Band, Lynyrd Skynyrd, and “David Allan Coe” himself – and, finally, Willie, Waylon and Me (1987), in which he muscled in on Nelson and Jennings’s famous friendship.

It was a pointed dig at his fellow outlaws whom he considered more a part of the country music establishment; those peers, for their part, often suggested that Coe had a tendency to self-mythologise – and at points he claimed to have more than 300 tattoos, and be a practising Mormon and a polygamist.

Jennings in particular struggled with Coe’s abrasive, confrontational edge, and once said he would “stab you in the back and then ride off your name like he’s your best friend.”Shelby Singleton, the producer who discovered Coe, told Rolling Stone in 1976 that “Ninety per cent of what he tells you is probably bulls***t.”

Coe took issue with those who refused to acknowledge his influence: he was the first mainstream country artist to have an all-female backing band, Ladysmith (a milestone which was later wrongly attributed to Dolly Parton’s early collaborator Porter Wagoner).

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David Allan Coe was born on September 6 1939 to Donald Coe and Dorothy, née Wilson, in Akron, Ohio, an industrial city then known as the Rubber Capital of the World. His childhood was impoverished and unhappy, ruled by his violent, drunken father, who worked at Goodyear Tires, and he was sent to a reform facility aged nine.

Two decades in correctional facilities followed, including three years at the Ohio State Penitentiary in Youngstown, where he faced charges for grand theft auto and possession of burglary tools. He later claimed that, while incarcerated, he killed a fellow inmate with a mop bucket after the inmate made homosexual advances in the communal showers, but this was later debunked; he also met the shock-rock pioneer Screamin’ Jay Hawkins, of I Put A Spell on You fame, who encouraged him to start singing.

Coe's 2005 compilation album

Prison left its mark on Coe: his first album, Penitentiary Blues, was released in 1970. Five years later, he reflected on how he had found solace in the system: “There were a lot of times when I would actually be in the county jail after being busted and I’d wake up the next morning and say to myself: ‘Oh I’m glad it’s over; I’m glad I’m going back to prison now, where I know I’ll be safe, where I’ll be out of society.’”

It was a fellow outlaw pioneer who earned Coe his most lucrative hit. In 1977, the aptly namedJohnny Paycheckhad a No 1 with a cover of Coe’s blue-collar anthem Take This Job and Shove It, which inspired the 1981 film of the same name, starring Robert Hays andArt Carney.

Coe’s commercial success began to plateau following his controversial albums Nothing Sacred (1978) and Underground Album (1982) – later reissued together as 18 X-Rated Hits – which were criticised for containing racist slurs and sexist stereotypes. Coe addressed the controversy in 2004, telling the website Swampland: “Anyone that would look at me and say I was a racist would have to be out of their mind.” It was not until his 1983 album Castles in the Sand – which contained The Ride – that Coe was welcomed back into the fold in Nashville.

Decades of obscure albums and purposely uncommercial projects ensued, including a pornographic novel. Late-life Coe was known mostly for his wizened, plaited beard and angry stage presence, as well as collaborations with the metal band Pantera and fellow country controversy-magnet, Kid Rock.

His final two decades were marred by financial struggles. In 2007, there were reports that he owed more than $290,000 in child support to his ex-wife Jody Lynn Coe (he was married six times), with whom he shares four children, including the country music podcaster Tyler Mahan Coe. Coe pleaded guilty to tax evasion in 2015 and was sentenced to three years’ probation and ordered to repay almost $1 million to the authorities.

He is survived by his sixth wife, Kimberley.

David Allan Coe, born September 6 1939, died April 29 2026

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Couple with 34-Year Age Gap Defend 'Relationship Non-Negotiables,' Explain Why They Only Drink Alcohol Together (Exclusive)

Gracen and Kevin Geagan share four "relationship non-negotiables," including nightly prayer and not drinking alcohol without each other

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  • The couple's boundaries sparked debate online, but they emphasize that these choices create clarity and strengthen their relationship

  • Their story has inspired others, especially those in age-gap relationships, to adopt more intentional relationship practices

When Gracen and Kevin Geagan sat down to film a video detailing their "relationship non-negotiables" in late April, they had no idea it would garner such a passionate response online.

The couple, who have a 34-year age gap, started the video by explaining that they "pray together every single night."

"Most of the time, Kevin leads the prayer, but every now and again, I'll take control," Gracen, 26, said in the video, before Kevin, 60, jokingly chimed in, "God knows I need praying over every now and then."

The automobile dealer explained that, "regardless of your faith," taking intentional time to express gratitude, thanks, and well wishes for others not only centers their relationship but also themselves as individuals.

However, it was the couple's second non-negotiable related to drinking alcohol that caused the most stir.

"We don't drink alcohol without each other," Gracen explained. "I know there're gonna be comments who find this absurd and crazy, but there's a vulnerability in drinking and being intoxicated, and that's not something I want to be without my partner present."

Kevin was quick to note that they each made the decision "individually," insisting that it was not something he implemented as a way of "controlling her."

"We didn't impose it on one another," he emphasized, noting that they "very much enjoy drinking socially, together, and with our friends, but it's not something we want to do without one another."

Gracen and Kevin GeaganCredit: Courtesy of Gracen and Kevin Geagan

However, some commenters under the video, which garnered nearly 13 million views, were quick to label their marriage "strict," which Gracen tells PEOPLE couldn't be farther from the truth.

"Interestingly, we had never heard that perspective until this particular video," she says. "We've never thought of these as 'rules,' because that can carry a more negative or rigid connotation, and that's not how it feels in our relationship at all."

"To us, they're better described as boundaries — things that help keep us aligned and supportive of what's best for our relationship."

The couple, who wed in November 2025, echoed that sentimentin a follow-up videoabout the "controversial" principle, reiterating that it's "not about restriction, it's just about not putting ourselves in a place where we're vulnerable without each other."

Gracen and Kevin Geagan in New York CityCredit: Courtesy of Gracen and Kevin Geagan

Gracen — who owns a charcuterie business in Greenville, S.C. — emphasizes to PEOPLE that boundaries aren't about constraint, but rather give their relationship "shape."

"Without them, even something beautiful can lose its direction," she says. "For us, these choices create a sense of clarity and ease, not limitation."

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While a select group of commenters criticized their boundaries around drinking, she notes that they've also received plenty of positive responses, which have "been the most meaningful part of all of this."

"We've heard from a surprisingly large number of people who are also in age-gap relationships who have reached out to say they feel more comfortable and confident after seeing our story shared openly," she shares.

"We've also received messages from people who are currently struggling in their relationships, saying they plan to incorporate some of these ideas — or wish they had earlier — which has been really impactful to hear," she adds.

Along with their habits surrounding prayer and alcohol consumption, the couple's other two non-negotiables in the original video related to handling conflict.

The couple explained that they are committed to "serving each other even in disagreements."

"It's easy to serve someone when it's 70 degrees and sunny, but when a thunderstorm rolls through, or inclement weather or you face a headwind, it becomes a little more difficult," Kevin explained in the video. "So we try to maintain our standards of behavior toward one another and kindness and courtesy, even if we are having a disagreement."

When asked what that looks like in practice, Gracen tells PEOPLE that, for them, "it comes down to remembering that even in a disagreement, this is still your closest person — your best friend — and someone who ultimately has your best interests at heart."

"In practice, that means shifting out of a mindset of trying to 'win' and instead focusing on understanding," she adds. "It can look like listening more intentionally, taking a step back when needed, or even doing something thoughtful for the other person in the middle of a disagreement."

"It keeps things grounded in the idea that you're on the same team, working through something together rather than against each other."

Gracen and Kevin Geagan wedding photoCredit: Courtesy of Gracen and Kevin Geagan

Their final non-negotiable is that they "don't keep score," or keep a list — mental or physical — of "all the ways they've been slighted."

Kevin explained that one of the best pieces of advice he got from his father was that in marriage, a lot of people focus on making it 50/50, when, in reality, everyone should "give their all" — a "full 100% each."

While the couple knows every relationship looks different, Gracen tells PEOPLE that, in the end, she hopes they inspire people to focus on "having better, more intentional relationships."

"Bottom line, I think people hear 'rules' and they think 'control,' but we hear 'clarity' and we think 'alignment,' " Kevin added in their follow-up TikTok.

"It's not for everybody, but it works for us. So you do you, and we'll do us," Gracen ended.

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